Friday, October 28, 2011

The Stair Victory

 

I am so far behind on blogging, but I feel the need to not wait to share this story until I am caught up.

This past Tuesday I had the awesome opportunity to observe a class of high school students with IDD (Intellectual Deficit Disorder, the new name for MR).  The students were amazing. So cute and just wonderfully created.

I have to admit that I was nervous about the observation. I get uncomfortable in those situations and I just didn’t want to act funny or be weird. I even shared that with the teacher before the students got to class just in case I seemed skittish. Of course, I didn’t want to feel this way and couldn’t really understand why I did. I know they are just like I am and I know they are loved by Jesus and a beautiful creation in his sight.

and, boy, did Jesus remind me of that while I was there.

Part of the daily schedule is to go on a walk. This teaches the students the importance of exercise and using our bodies. The teacher hope to ingrain this in the student’s minds so that when they are no longer students at the school, they will remember to exercise.

As we walked out onto the track around the football field, I noticed “Stevie” hanging back and walking slowly up the wheelchair ramp that led up to the bleacher seats. The teacher told me not to worry about Stevie. This was normal for Stevie and that he just needed time at the beginning of the walk to explore the stairs.  You see, Stevie used to be afraid of the stairs and is slowly exploring them to overcome that fear.

He continued to share with us that at the beginning of the year, he found Stevie at the bottom of the stairs that lead to the bleachers just staring at them. Stevie is non-verbal and unable to verbally express his wants or desires to the teacher, so when the teacher said “What’s wrong Stevie?”, Stevie just looked at the stairs. The teacher, being perceptive, said “Do you want to go up the stairs Stevie?” Stevie flapped his hands in excitement. “Well, go on then.” Again, Stevie just stood there. So the teacher said “Do you want me to go with you?” Again, Stevie flapped his hands in excitement. So up they went, together climbing the stairs that lead to the bleachers.

Since that day the teacher reported that Stevie has slowly been making his way up the bleachers. He will walk up to about the 4th row and then turn around, afraid to go further.

Until that Tuesday.

I was continuing to bombard the teacher with questions about teaching students with IDD when we both looked up at the bleachers and saw something that I am getting chills from right now to think about.

There was Stevie and there was Mr. C, an assistant in the classroom…with their arms draped over each other… climbing the stairs…together. It was clear that Mr. C was basically holding Stevie up and encouraging him the whole way. I imagine he was saying “come on Stevie, one more step, you can do it! I’m next to you! Don’t be afraid! You got this!”

Then they made it. All the way to the top. Arm in Arm.

I wish I would have had a camera to capture that moment when Stevie turned around and excitingly clapped his hands and gave Mr. C a high five. The cheer was not only in Stevie’s eyes, but also in Mr. C’s. It was hard to hold back the tears.

After a minute or so, Stevie and Mr. C climbed back down the same way…arms around each other…slowly… together.

Whew. It was an amazing accomplishment! It was so cool to see! Stevie came over to give us each a high five. He was so proud of himself and we were so proud of him!

What a beautiful picture that was for me. Its just like Jesus carries us. Sometime we don’t want to go that way or take that step a little higher, but he put his arm tightly around our shoulder and supports and encourages us the whole way. We can do it. We can take that step higher. We can love a little more. and we don’t have to be afraid because he is there. and he will carry us and cheer us on for what may seem like the simplest of accomplishments.

Climb those stairs…He’s got you.

Sunday, October 23, 2011

Truth.

My friend Kallie is such a blessing to me and her blog from today is just too good to not share. Thank you Kallie for living life with these kids and loving them regardless of anything. Thank you for the reminder that they are worth fighting for.

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Sunday, October 9, 2011

Charleston Cribz…

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Thanks to my parents, Allan and I were able to get a lot of things moved into our new home together before the wedding! This was extremely helpful since we started school 3 days after we got back from the ‘moon. It was also fun to put together this place that was going to be ours! Crazyyyyy. Anyways, here are a couple photos. But this is no substitution for a physical visit to our home. (read: please come visit!)

(Left): This is our front stoop, a door to the porch, and the mailbox. We’re B : ) The apartment is the bottom floor of a “single home” hence we have a door to the porch.






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(Left) This is a view from the porch that lead to our laundry room (read: washer and dryer behind us in the foyer of the house. The stairs on my right lead to the upstairs apartment) and the door to our actual apartment. Confusing, I know. You should just come for a visit for it to make more sense.



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(Right): our living room from the door.

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(Left): the kitchen and dining room.




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(Right): the bedroom. You can see the floor now though.

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(Left): The bathroom. I know you were waiting for this shot!






and that’s it! Its small and quaint and ours together. and I love it. : ) It’s not much to clean either which is one of my favorite parts! Maybe I’ll put some new pictures up someday now that we are moved in completely! Come visit!

NOW GET OUT MTV. PEACE.

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

My Maine Man

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It’s a popular question…Where are y’all going on your honeymoon??

Well, I thought we were going to the Biltmore House.

and that’s what I told everyone.

Turns out Allan had a little trick up his sleeve.

After the wedding, we met my parents in the parking lot to pick up a few things. I had not packed well (meaning lots of things all over the car, lots of bags, nothing organized, etc.) because I thought we would have Allan’s car and I could pack as much as I wanted. As we are saying our goodbyes and Allan is rushing for us to leave, my sweet dad (bless his heart), seeing this packed car, questions… “are you going to park that in long term parking??”

Huh?

“I mean, you know, long term parking at the Biltmore House, uhh, blah, blah, blah.”

Long term parking happens at an airport, which would mean we were flying somewhere? But the Biltmore is driving distance! Confusion set in.

Allan and all his sweetness had planned a surprise honeymoon trip! He had told my parents only a few weeks earlier and they did so good keeping the secret, until the very last minute! But it was still a HUGE surprise to me!

Allan still wouldn’t tell me exactly where we were going until the next morning.

He told me…“We’re going to Maine!”

I said…”Maine??” I was so confused! Who visits Maine? on a honeymoon?

I could not have asked for a better place to go! It was perfect! The weather was crisp and cool (perfect in my definition), the hotel was gorgeous and I felt like a princess, the view was incredible. It was just perfect! Maine is beautiful and there was lots to do! It was fantastic!

Good first move there as a hubby, Al.

Funny story: We were running SO late on Monday morning and were not going to make it to the airport in time to check luggage! I have never seen Allan drive so fast! On the way, we realized that we were not going to have time to park in long term parking (funny, dad, funny), we decided that Allan would drop me off and he would park in hourly parking…yes, HOURLY! (again, funny dad.) and we would try to get a friend to move it for us. As I tried to check in, I realized I didn’t know where in Maine we were going. By the time I got it figured out, we were too late to check luggage. After begging the lady, she let us check out luggage! yay! Clothes! Allan then came in and we ran through the airport to security, went through the first class line (even though we weren’t) and then ran to the gate! We made it! Only to find out the plane was 2 hours delayed. That would have been nice to know. A HUGE thanks to Stephanie Pitt and her parents for moving our car for us to long term parking!! Wow. That was such a big help and gift to us! Thank you!!!!

Here are some photos, MAINEly for my mom : )!

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Probably my favorite picture of Allan ever. He was sympathizing with the dead lobster, poor guy. IMG_0724

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We got to go on a bi-plane ride (thanks, Carleton!) and it was super fly ; ) get it?

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Coffee on the porch : ) and a lighthouse (I don’t remember why it’s significant…oops!)

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Blueberries are also everywhere, so we had to sample the blueberry soda, of course!IMG_0806

Whale Watching and Lobster Fishing!

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and finally…the beautiful view from our room!

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It was fannntastic! And not even that sad to leave because I got to come home to our new home together! yay! That’s another post too! I know…I know…way to many posts recently Smile but I am trying to get caught up on my digital scrapbook Smile

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

The Day I Became A. Sharpe

It was the best wedding I have ever been to. Mainly because of the man involved (I mean, just check out that photo below), but also because of my amazing parents and our incredible friends and family who gave up an entire weekend to celebrate with us. We seriously had so much fun with everyone and feel so humble that people were willing to do that for us! It was like a dream come true for me…everyone I love in one place at the same time! AHH! So great!

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The ceremony was incredible—the best I have ever heard. My brother, Drew, married us, which was super special. He did such an amazing job portraying the holiness of marriage and our responsibility to each other in this relationship. I have a copy of it if anyone wants to read it. Seriously. It really was amazing. It was so special to me to have Drew marry us. He is such an awesome brother that I just look up to so much, so to have him in that role of marrying us, challenging us in this step, was incredible.

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The reception was a blast too! I just love to dance, and dance is what we did.

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We even line danced!! Praise God!

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We left on a motorcycle and side-car…well, sort of!

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Allan revved the engine to take off, everyone was cheering and then…..chhhhuuuuu….the engine died!

That’s okay, we tried again! Allan revved the engine, everyone cheered and……chhhuuuuu…the engine died again!

Third time is a charm though!

Allan revved the engine, everyone cheered and then…..chhhhhhuuuu….but then we started moving!

how?

Three of Allan’s groomsmen started pushing us! How incredible is that? They pushed us up the hill and then one of them said “drop it into gear” so Allan did and off we went! YAY! It was so much fun!

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It was such a fun day! We are so thankful to everyone who helped to make it so special by being there and supporting us! We were humbled by the outpour of love, gifts, time, words, encouraging words, and excitement for us. So THANK YOU! We’re married! for life! Crazy! and so exciting! YAY!

Here are some more photos to check out of the day! Thanks so much to Elizabeth of Almond Leaf Studios (who has a really cool motivation to her photography, by the way) and Lauren Jackson of Lauren Jackson Photography for these amazing shots! They are so incredibly talented!

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so thankful that Geordan, my primary from the DHP, and his girlfriend got to be there! and the CLB’s!Sharpe-Reception-HiRes-204_thumb2Sharpe-Reception-HiRes-205_thumb2

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There are even more here (Almondleaf blog) and here (Lauren Jackson Photography)  if you want to see them!!

and here is a sweet 5 minute video by Ryan Plantz to help us remember the day in motion!!

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p.s. Thanks Mom and Dad for everything! It was awesome!